Your partner needs to want to do this program for themselves. Your partner needs to be committed to changing because they themselves want to change. My marriage was on the road to being over but my husband stuck with this program for over a year now and we are finding each other again. Our future is bright and I feel safe and proud of him. The Heavy M.E.T.A.L program is the key-your partner will learn how to use this key to make important and profound changes.