I would say if you really love her/them then ask yourself: Do you want to change? Do you want to be respected by your family? You might think you are respected but like I found they were scared to say otherwise. I would also say, you might think you are a great couple. I thought we were, we had our normal ups and downs. The fact is we are still together because I got off my ass and tried to make a change and she respects me for that although I have my days when I am still abusive. She knows it is a long road and supports me because I am trying. My daughter is even cheekier and relaxed around me because I am not so grumpy these days, she also supports what I am doing with this program. It’s great! Give it a go! It’s your ego not your family which will stop you.